<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Connie Passalacqua Hayman]]></title><description><![CDATA[I have been an entertainment journalist specializing in daytime soaps for 40 years.  I also was an adjunct professor of journalism at NYU and Marymount..  My blog "Marlena De Lacroix: Soaps for the Thinking Fan" can be seen at Marlenadelacroix.com.  ]]></description><link>https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!rGCd!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F208eebbe-39ee-49f6-aa58-85ea899e816a_144x144.png</url><title>Connie Passalacqua Hayman</title><link>https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2026 06:04:33 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Connie Passalacqua Hayman]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[conniepassalacquahayman@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[conniepassalacquahayman@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Connie Passalacqua Hayman]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Connie Passalacqua Hayman]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[conniepassalacquahayman@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[conniepassalacquahayman@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Connie Passalacqua Hayman]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[Behind the Scenes: “They Care as Much About Soaps as We Do”]]></title><description><![CDATA[April 13, 2026 by Vince Morasco]]></description><link>https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com/p/behind-the-scenes-they-care-as-much</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com/p/behind-the-scenes-they-care-as-much</guid><pubDate>Wed, 06 May 2026 00:28:03 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iWXl!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe1a59b0e-b261-467e-a05b-63ca8944d3cc_1309x1600.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong>Marlena says: When I first started writing the &#8220;Critical Condition&#8221; column in Soap Opera Weekly in 1989, I hoped reader reactions to my opinions would be strong, and I wasn&#8217;t disappointed. So early on I decided to make anybody who wrote to me my friend, either by personal reply or later by making you my Facebooks friends. I&#8217;ve made many, many lasting friendships both nationally and internationally, some for many decades.</strong></em></p><p><em><strong>Early on I heard from a very sweet fan named Vince Morasco and we discovered that, in addition to loving soaps, we were fellow Italians. Vince and I started going to the yearly feast of San Gennaro on the Lower East Side, filling our faces with sausages and cannoli as we exchanged opinions on soaps. Vince was about to go to work backstage at &#8220;One Life to Live,&#8221; so there was plenty to talk about.</strong></em></p><p><em><strong>All these years later, I&#8217;m proud to introduce Vince (who remembers more of what I&#8217;ve written than I do sometimes) as a new contributor to this site. In this, his first column, he&#8217;s talking about his years at &#8220;OLTL.&#8221; He makes some great observations about the way soaps work and how much those who make them care about their shows just as much as the fans do. On the way, you&#8217;ll find such names as the show&#8217;s one-time controversial executive producer Jill Farren Phelps and such beloved performers as Robert S. Woods (Bo) and Erika Slezak (Viki).</strong></em></p><p><em><strong>Do write and tell me what you think of Vince&#8217;s first column. As Marlena has written often lately, soap fans are the best friends, and I hope along with me you will welcome Vince to &#8220;Marlena De Lacroix: Soaps for the Thinking Fan.&#8221;</strong></em></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iWXl!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe1a59b0e-b261-467e-a05b-63ca8944d3cc_1309x1600.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!iWXl!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fe1a59b0e-b261-467e-a05b-63ca8944d3cc_1309x1600.jpeg 424w, 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I knew the characters of my favorite soaps as well as I knew my own family. I admired the writers for their creativity, the producers for assembling the shows so seamlessly, and the actors for bringing it all to life. I would often imagine my own storylines and plot twists, carefully documenting them in what became my personal &#8220;soap bible&#8221; for years. What I never could have imagined, especially as a shy, insecure kid, was that one day I would step out from behind the screen and become part of that world myself.</p><p>Being a guy, I watched soaps in secret. I didn&#8217;t dare tell my friends. How would my buddies react? They certainly wouldn&#8217;t think it was cool, and at the very least, they probably wouldn&#8217;t understand. As I got older, I started reading the soap magazines &#8211; also in secret. In college, I would go into town every Friday afternoon and buy my favorite one, Soap Opera Weekly. I would always ask for a bag so that no one would see me carrying it on the way back to campus, and I would find a quiet corner of the library to read it &#8211; from cover to cover! I loved everything about it &#8212; the in-depth analyses of the industry, the intelligent critiques, detailed ratings information, large photos, and the overall sophistication of the publication.</p><p>My favorite column was &#8220;Critical Condition&#8221; by Marlena De Lacroix. What an intelligent, classy, honest, and thought-provoking column! I was so inspired by the quality of the journalism that I did something I had never done before. I wrote Marlena a fan letter. Much to my surprise, she responded! That meant the world to me. What began with that letter grew into a friendship that has now lasted more than twenty-five years, built on our shared love of soaps, and our Italian heritage. I sincerely thank Connie (a.k.a. Marlena) for our friendship, and for inviting me to contribute to her column. It is truly a dream come true!</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp" width="124" height="186" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:186,&quot;width&quot;:124,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Claire Labine, wrote \&quot;memorable storylines\&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Claire Labine, wrote &quot;memorable storylines&quot;" title="Claire Labine, wrote &quot;memorable storylines&quot;" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EdoU!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F06598670-e60c-4e43-9e52-b0c407238d1d_124x186.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><blockquote><p>                                     <strong>Claire Labine, a favorite Head Writer  </strong></p></blockquote><p>Another dream come true came during my senior year of college. Fortunately, I finally had the good sense to step out of my soap &#8220;shell&#8221; and admit to someone that I was a soap fan. That person was my advisor and dramatic writing professor at SUNY New Paltz. She became a true mentor, helping me recognize that I might actually have some writing potential. As it turned out, she was also a soap fan herself&#8212;something I only discovered after &#8220;coming out&#8221; to her about my soap watching. Even better, she had a connection at ABC Daytime. She encouraged me to apply for an internship there, explaining that it was one of the best ways to get your foot in the door. That advice ultimately led me to an internship at &#8220;One Life to Live.&#8221;</p><p>What started as a lifelong obsession turned into one of the most amazing and rewarding experiences of my life. I was probably too young and na&#239;ve to really appreciate how fortunate I was at that time, but I certainly realize it now. There is something truly magical about seeing the inner workings of a world you once only experienced as a fan. You quickly learn how complex it all is, and how hard everyone works behind the scenes. It is not glamorous by any means, but every day is interesting, challenging, and exciting. Adding to that excitement was the fact that one of my favorite Head Writers, Claire Labine, was there when I started, and one of my favorite Executive Producers, Jill Farren Phelps, would soon be coming on board. Ms. Labine co-created one of my all-time favorite shows, &#8220;Ryan&#8217;s Hope,&#8221; and wrote some of the most inspiring and memorable storylines on &#8220;General Hospital.&#8221; Ms. Phelps had created pure magic on another favorite of mine, &#8220;Santa Barbara,&#8221; which led me to follow her work on &#8220;Guiding Light&#8221; and &#8220;Another World&#8221;&#8212; two shows I had never previously watched, but ones that quickly hooked me thanks to her creativity and excellent production values. In every sense of the word, I was living a dream!</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp" width="148" height="148" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/c247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:148,&quot;width&quot;:148,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Erika Slezak, \&quot;classy and professional\&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Erika Slezak, &quot;classy and professional&quot;" title="Erika Slezak, &quot;classy and professional&quot;" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!4GTr!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fc247f785-3924-4706-bfcf-abad6c506c0a_148x148.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><blockquote><p>                                 <strong>Erika Slezak, &#8220;classy and professional&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote><p>Unfortunately, my shyness at the time kept me from fully expressing to these amazing people how much I appreciated them, and how lucky &#8212; and thrilled &#8212; I was to be there. Perhaps it was obvious, but either way, everyone was incredibly gracious and supportive. I was given the opportunity to observe in the booth, the editing room, and even on set. Watching the directors and crew work their magic in record time was fascinating, and I learned how each episode was carefully and painstakingly assembled. It truly was a structured, well-oiled machine &#8212; one that depended entirely on teamwork.</p><p>Admittedly, I was not a regular &#8220;OLTL&#8221; viewer at the time. However, I was familiar with the cast, and meeting that incredibly talented group of actors was pure joy. Bob Woods always had me laughing, and Erika Slezak was every bit as classy and professional as I had imagined. Kassie DePaiva and Gina Tognoni were consistently warm, friendly, and supportive. I especially loved running lines with Robin Strasser and Wortham Krimmer &#8212; what genuine, intelligent, and caring people. Kale Brown, Timothy Gibbs, John Bolger, and Don Jeffcoat were true class acts and simply extraordinary human beings.</p><p>It was a dynamic time to be there, as the show was undergoing a major transformation. After several rocky years, Phelps arrived with a clear mandate: to revitalize the series with faster-paced, higher-stakes storytelling &#8212; something she had successfully accomplished on her previous shows. While some longtime viewers needed time to adjust to the changes, the shift brought renewed energy and drew more people in, with audiences becoming increasingly invested in the show. Years of rotating Head Writers and Executive Producers had left behind remnants of different creative eras &#8212; elements that were either underused or no longer quite fit the canvas. Phelps streamlined the cast, sharpened the creative vision, and elevated the overall look, feel, and sound of the show, shaping it into a more compelling drama. The results spoke for themselves: ratings in key demos rose, and the show earned a well-deserved Emmy nomination for the first time in fifteen years. The show would finally win the Emmy for the first time in 2002.</p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp" width="192" height="250" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:250,&quot;width&quot;:192,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:null,&quot;alt&quot;:&quot;Bob Woods, \&quot;always had me laughing\&quot;&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:null,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:false,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="Bob Woods, &quot;always had me laughing&quot;" title="Bob Woods, &quot;always had me laughing&quot;" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!Wq19!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F287a3e54-02ec-4361-b293-becd193198a3_192x250.webp 1456w" sizes="100vw"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><blockquote><p>                                        <strong>Bob Woods, &#8220;kept me laughing&#8221;</strong></p></blockquote><p>I was also extremely fortunate to observe and learn from several key people behind-the-scenes. Frank Valentini (then-Supervising Producer) was dedicated, hands-on, and made it all look so easy. Mary O&#8217;Leary (Producer) was always positive, incredibly meticulous, and truly one of the kindest people you could meet. Owen Renfroe (Director) often took the time to explain things to me, which I greatly appreciated. The stage managers, office staff and writers taught me so much, and worked tirelessly every single day. Being able to witness their professionalism and dedication up close was an experience I will always value.</p><p>One of the most meaningful realizations for me in going from fan to fixture was discovering that the same sense of family I admired on screen truly existed behind the scenes. Creating these shows can be just as addictive as watching them, and everyone involved is every bit as passionate as the fans. They do it out of love, and with a constant drive for excellence. And, when something doesn&#8217;t quite hit the mark, they are aware of it just as much as we are, and work hard to make it right. Everyone owns a piece of the magic and takes great pride in it. That magic &#8212; and that pride &#8212; spread to the fans as well. It is what keeps us tuning in through the highs and the lows, and it is why we care so deeply about our shows.</p><p>Thanks again to Connie for giving me the opportunity to share one of the highlights of my life on this platform. I am excited to connect with you all, and look forward to occasionally sharing more about my love of soaps and some of the wonderful experiences that have come with it.</p></blockquote><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">This Substack is reader-supported. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Thanks, “General Hospital,” for Three Days of Riveting Soap Opera]]></title><description><![CDATA[April 1, 2026 by Marlena De Lacroix a.k.a Connie Passalacqua Hayman]]></description><link>https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com/p/thanks-general-hospital-for-three</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://conniepassalacquahayman.substack.com/p/thanks-general-hospital-for-three</guid><pubDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 13:24:37 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!rGCd!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fbucketeer-e05bbc84-baa3-437e-9518-adb32be77984.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F208eebbe-39ee-49f6-aa58-85ea899e816a_144x144.png" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In all the years I&#8217;ve been writing about and criticizing soap opera, I can&#8217;t recall a sequence of episodes that was so solidly entertaining as last week&#8217;s Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday &#8220;General Hospital.&#8221; Instead of one major &#8220;A&#8221; story and a few backgrounders, here was a show chock of colliding major storylines and cliffhangers that make us gasp. That&#8217;s how this &#8220;wowsa&#8221; dramatic blend struck me, and I&#8217;d bet, many of you, too. These shows felt more like movies than soaps!</p><p>The impetus for all this was the impending temporary absence of Steve Burton&#8217;s Jason. The veteran star is taking a hiatus from the show, handing headwriters Chris Van Etten and Elizabeth Korte the challenge of devising a rip-roaring way to get the character off the canvas. This, they did. Jason and his lady love Britt (Kelly Theibaud, an idiosyncratic actress who is always interesting to watch) have wanted to leave Port Charles anyway. But they got detained. Hitman Jason was set to assassinate WSB head Ross Cullum (played by Andrew Hawkes, who is great at being creepy, perhaps the most unattractive actor ever to appear on a soap opera.) The two met down by the docks and Cullum pulled out a dangerous-looking silver bludgeon of some sort, intending to wallop Jason across the head. But before he could get a good swing, a shot rang out and Cullum crumbled to the ground. The shooter was &#8230; Rocco Falconari (Finn Carr)! A shaken Rocco went home to his mother Lulu (Alex Havins Bruening) who in a beautifully played scene of mother love comforted her distraught son.</p><p>Meanwhile, over at Alexis&#8217; office another deadly scenes unfolded. Alexis (Nancy Grahn) found a badly wounded Marco Rios (Adrian Anchondo) who had been stabbed by Cullum. I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever seen a gorier soap murder scene. &#8220;GH&#8221; spared on expense on fake blood. Cullum was rushed off to the hospital where he was attended to Dr. Isiah Gannon (Sawandi Wilson) and nurse Elizabeth Baldwin (Rebecca Herbst). Unfortunately, Marco didn&#8217;t make it and was bid heartbreaking farewell by his devoted longtime lover Dr. Lucas Jones (Van Hansis.)</p><p>Of course, these killings reverberated. Marco&#8217;s father, Sidwell (Carlo Rota) was devastated by the death of his son, and as he broke down, was comforted by one of his lady loves, Ava (Maura West). What bravura melodrama! This is the kind of performance Daytime Emmy reels are made of.</p><p>The action went on. Jason, who was blamed for attacking Sidwell, was caught by the WUSB&#8217;s Jack Brennan (Chris Mckenna) and another host of WUSB ugly agents and sent by car far away from Port Charles. His exit on the Port Charles docks was harrowingly witnessed by Jason&#8217;s&#8217; near hysterical son Danny (Asher Anytonyn) and an overwhelmed Britt. What a memorable farewell the writers gave to Jason.</p><p>The next day, Cullum lay unconscious in the hospital. Dr. Britt hovered nearby with a perhaps lethal injection when WUSB agent Jocelyn (Eden McCoy) entered and insisted that either she or Britt should finish this dangerous man him off. Suddenly Cullum&#8217;s eyes opened&#8230;</p><p>And so, the remarkable everyday drama of &#8220;General Hospital&#8221; goes on as proven by these latest episodes, the only can&#8217;t miss soap opera I can remember in a long, long time. Of course, writers Chris von Etten and Korte delivered here, as they do practically every day. The show is expertly overseen by veteran executive producer Frank Valentini. But what really struck me watching this ensemble cast these three days was how great this show&#8217;s casting is. The very sensitive performances of the young actors who play young Rocco and Danny in this episode were crucial to their impact. Young players Carter and Antonynyn put me in the mind of a young Sal Mineo or James Dean. Since kudos as always to casting director Mark Teschner who found these two winning young men, and in addition, his latest find young Bluesy Burke, who plays Charlotte Cassidine. As I&#8217;ve written so often over the years, &#8220;GH&#8221; casting director Mark Teschner never misses.</p><p>Will we ever see this kind of pull-out-all-the-stops soap opera again on daytime? Who knows? Marlena is happy it happened this time, and on our old favorite soap &#8220;General Hospital.&#8221;</p><p><strong>A note to my readers:</strong></p><p>Marlena De Lacroix has been a soap journalist since 1979. Since this column originated in Soap Opera Weekly in 1987 as &#8220;Critical Condition,&#8221; I&#8217;ve been lucky to be able to count so many of you as both faithful readers and correspondents as well as beloved friends. As of this week my column will continue to appear here and on Substack. Besides the current weekly column members will eventually have access to many past columns&#8211;there are over seven hundred of them! That&#8217;s a lot of soap commentary! Thinking fans come and join me in rereading what has always been Marlena De Lacroix&#8217;s own labor of love.</p><p>Marlena/Connie has been on the publicity trail recently. Look for her chat with author Tom Lisanti (&#8220;Texas&#8221; and &#8220;Ryan&#8217;s Hope&#8221;) on &#8220;The Diana Montford Show.&#8221; It&#8217;s produced for public access television by the Manhattan Neighborhood Network. She and Tom talk about their careers interviewing soap opera, primetime, and movie stars. It&#8217;s available on YouTube.</p><p>Also on YouTube is an appearance on &#8220;The General Hospital Snark Podcast&#8221; on Monday nights. Connie is now billed as a special correspondent on the long life and fascinating times of &#8220;GH.&#8221; The Snarks are two soap fans who are as insightful as they are devoted. On the podcast, Connie tells stories of interviewing many &#8220;General Hospital&#8221; greats over the years like Genie Francis and Gloria Monty. The Snarks also can be found on Facebook and Spotify.</p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>